When The Fire Feels Like It’s Fading

Some days, you’re locked in. 

Focused.

Driven.

Unstoppable. 

You’re showing up for yourself. 

The habits are sticking. 

The growth is real. 

You feel powerful, aligned, and damn, it shows.

And then… life hits.

  • The weight of everyone else’s expectations.
  • The roles you’ve been playing for way too long.
  • The inner critic who loves to whisper, “You should be further along by now.”


Suddenly, all that momentum feels like it’s slipping. You’re staring at a stack of self-help books that didn’t change a thing. The routines feel hollow. 

And the spark? 

Flickering at best.

Here’s the thing: You’re not here to repeat old patterns.


You’re Here To Rise. 

Fully

Boldly.

Without Apology.

You're Ready To Reignite

And this time, it's for good!


What If You Didn’t Wake Up Drowning In Everyone Else’s Expectations?

What if you opened your eyes and remembered that you get to decide how this day unfolds?

  • You rise early because there’s power in showing up for yourself when no one’s watching.

  • You travel to expand. Wandering through unknown streets that feel alive.

  • Journaling between sips of coffee strong enough to match your soul at the outdoor cafe.

You Know What It’s Like To Burn Bright...And To Burn Out

There are days when you’re on.

Fierce.

The version of you that takes the wheel and everything you’ve been working on finally clicks. 

You feel clear, capable, and like you could move mountains.

Then, life shows up.


The pressure to be everything to everyone.


The outdated rules you never agreed to and  still live by.


The “you should be further by now” loop that plays in your head on repeat.

And just like that, the spark dims. 

Again.

You’ve tried the planners. The feel-good advice that never actually helped when things got real. And you’re not here to waste time repeating the same cycle.

You're done playing small.


You're ready to light the match, burn through the B.S., and build something real...from the ground up.

I’m Christen. TEDx Speaker, Boy Mom, And Radical Transformation Co-Facilitator.

𝐈 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐞𝐲𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫, “𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐝𝐢𝐝 𝐈 𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞?”

To be the one who always handles it. Always holds it down. 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠'𝐬 𝐨𝐟𝐟. 𝐋𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐥𝐬𝐞’𝐬 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 “𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬.” I’ve been there. PhD? Got it. Tens of thousands of hours in training? Been there, done that. TEDx talk? Yep — checked that box too. And even with all that… I still wasn’t living the way I actually wanted. 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭. 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥. 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐲. 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐝. 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐞. Something that felt like me. Not the masked-up version of me that played by all the rules. 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤? 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐟𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥, 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞, 𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐞? Yeah, that fire didn’t burn out. It just evolved. I may not be out every weekend anymore — but that electricity? 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜, 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞-𝐮𝐩-𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭-𝐭𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦? 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐞. 𝐈𝐭 𝐟𝐮𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐰. Every bold move. Every boundary I hold. Every dream I refuse to put on a shelf. That’s why I do this work. I work with the ones who are done pretending. The achievers. The fighters. The bold souls who want to burn it all down and build something that actually feels alive. We stop hiding. We stop shrinking. We turn the volume all the way up on your joy, your purpose, your hell yes. 𝐍𝐨 𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐢𝐞𝐬. 𝐍𝐨 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐨𝐱𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞.

Here’s Exactly What’s Included In Your Transformational Assessment:

  • 𝐀 𝟔𝟎–𝟗𝟎 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐞𝐩-𝐃𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧: 1:1 session with me. Real talk. Lots of questions. We identify what’s in your way, where you actually want to go, and how to start moving toward it.

  • 𝐂𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐦 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬: A .pdf summarizing the findings of the Transformational Assessment with suggested transformational actions to lead you toward your radical goals. You’ll walk away with actionable insights and transformational steps mapped out so you can make aligned moves right now.

  • 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐀𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐁𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭: A digital book containing transformational tools to live your version of success. Uncover the patterns that support and deplete you. You figure out what works and what doesn't to create a structured, repeatable system that ensures you take action consistently, so you’re always progressing.